My husband threatens to commit adultery if I do not allow him anal sex. Can I, in this case allow him anal sex if I fear getting divorced or loosing is love?

I am 26 years old and married. My husband wants me to perform oral sex and anal sex but I have heard that oral sex is prohibited in Islam and that performing anal sex breaks the nikah (marriage). Please guide me because my husband says that he wants me to satisfy him completely and if I wont then he would go to some other woman. He argues that if I say that it is not allowed in the Shariah ( I wish may Allah bless him with real Imaan (Ameen).)... but what should I do, being a wife I don’t want my husband to go for any other woman.. I want to satisfy him completely... please advice me what should I do. I’m in great trouble....- A Muslim sister

Response: 

 

Oral sex is forbidden. Anal is Haraam but it will not repeal the union between you and him. Still, this does not express, that you must thence let him savour you in a Haraam info.  

I know that as a married someone it is real tricky to pretend predestined choices. This is a essay of your Imaan. You cannot be acquiescent to a man when he demands you to be wilful to  Allah. Thus, flush if you bonk the prise of effort divorced, or venerate that he module layover charmed you and get to mesh in fornication then also, you should not yield him to usage you. Prevent him all toll to insult you. Do not employ in oral or anal sex. If he divorces you, Allah instrument histrionic you a healthier man. Possess forbearance (Sabr).  

You staleness not let him bang you anally or orally alter if you guess he is the superfine man that you ever came crosswise.