I know that
its not permissible having intercourse with a women during menses. It is
medically proved that these liquids discharge from the vagina of the women is
harmful to men. However, is it permissible if he wears a condom or if she wears
a women’s
condom?
It is not
allowable for the spouse to have sex with his significant other when she is
discharging, on the grounds that Allah says (understanding of the importance):
"They
ask you concerning period. Say: that is an Adha (a destructive thing for a
spouse to have a sex with his significant other while she is having her
menses), in this manner, avoid ladies amid menses and go not unto them till
they are cleansed (from menses and have washed up). Furthermore, when they have
cleaned themselves, then go in unto them as Allah has appointed for you (go in
unto them in any way the length of it is in their vagina). Genuinely, Allah
adores the individuals who turn unto Him in contrition and loves the
individuals who purge themselves (by scrubbing down and cleaning and washing
altogether their reproductive organs and bodies for their supplications)"
[al-Baqarah
2:222]
So it is not
reasonable to engage in sexual relations with a discharging lady until she has
gotten to be immaculate (her menses has finished) and she has done ghusl.
There is a
stern cautioning against having sex with a discharging lady, as alTirmidhi
(135) and Abu Dawood (3904) and Ibn Majaah (639) described from Abu Hurayrah
(may Allah be satisfied with him) that the Prophet (peace and gifts of Allah be
upon him) said: "Whoever engages in sexual relations with a bleeding lady,
or with a lady in her back entry, or who goes to a psychic and accepts what he
says, has doubted in that which was uncovered to Muhammad." Classed as
saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.
The spouse
may appreciate closeness with his bleeding wife in courses other than
intercourse. See the response to scrutinize no. 36722.
Furthermore:
Allah has
charged avoiding bleeding ladies, i.e., not engaging in sexual relations with
them until they get to be unadulterated (the menses finishes) and they have
done ghusl. So one must comply with that and it is haraam to engage in sexual
relations with her regardless of the possibility that one is wearing a condom,
in light of the fact that the person who has sex while wearing a condom is as
yet having sex, and on the off chance that he has sex with his significant
other while she is discharging, he falls into wrongdoing and insubordination.
Consequently
the fuqaha' (may Allah show kindness toward them) expressed that it is haraam
to have sex with a discharging lady regardless of the possibility that that is
with an obstruction.
It says in
Asna'l-Mataalib (1/100) furthermore in Tuhfat al-Muhtaaj (1/390), which are
both Shaafa'i books:
So also it
is haraam to engage in sexual relations with her (i.e. the discharging lady) in
her vagina even with a hindrance. End cite.
It says in
Kashshaaf al-Qinaa' (1/201) furthermore in al-Furoo' (1/262), which are Hanbali
books: Even if intercourse is with a hindrance that he wraps around his penis
or a pack into which he embeds it. End cite.
Thirdly:
And in
addition being haraam, intercourse at the season of menses is additionally
unsafe to both the man and the lady. The specialists have recorded various
illnesses that might be brought about for both the man and the lady as a
consequence of this:
1-It might
bring about the lady to drain intensely
2-Intercourse
amid menses prompts to the presentation of germs into the uterus, which might
be more vulnerable to disease at the season of menses
3-There is a
late study which discusses the relationship between the occurrence of cervical
malignancy and incessant intercourse at the season of menses.
See
additionally the response to scrutinize no. 43028.
This is the
explanation for the denial, and there might be different purposes for it, for
example, it being a test for the person who is responsible, to see to what
degree he will obey and how honest he is, and how he will avoid what Allah has
forbidden. Risk of pregnancy is not a solution for this.
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